Monthly Archives: May 2013

Actions Speak Louder Than Words

What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say – Ralph Waldo Emerson I am feeling sad today.  I still have a difficult time trying to make sense of my failed marriage.  I start to drift … Continue reading

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“Unkind people …

Originally posted on Kissing A Fool:
“Unkind people need your kindness the most, they advertise their pain,” Rick Warren On why I am choosing to forgive my spouse (eventually).  Not today, maybe not this year but someday.  But I am…

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Thanksgiving 2011 – Something Was Wrong!

Thanksgiving 2011 was probably the worst day of my life at this point.  Actually, it was the Tuesday night before Thanksgiving.  DH and I planned on going to Pennsylvania to see my sister (my Dad has passed away the year … Continue reading

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My Short Story – Background

2007 was a life-changing year.   Let me just say that I was a happily single woman, 50 years old and had been single for 16 years !!!!  I was finally happy being single (trust me, I had had my share of … Continue reading

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Argument Over Credit Card Debt

I was single 16 years before I married DH (real names have been concealed to protect the cheating spouse as he holds a public elected office).  I was in my 50’s when I married DH; thought it was the real … Continue reading

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How I Named My Blog – First Post

How did I name this blog?  It all started April 1, 2012; however, as I will explain later, it started way before that; I just didn’t see it.  Nothing was clear to me at the time.   But, on April 1, … Continue reading

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